The art and skill of women’s pleasure.

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Private sex and intimacy coaching for women who want to understand their bodies, communicate their desires, receive more fully, and feel at ease in their erotic lives, with practical guidance for the partners who want to love them well.

Pleasure Coaching for Women, Partners, and Couples

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For Women:

Understand your body, ask for what you want, reconnect with pleasure, and stop performing your way through intimacy.

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For Partners:

Stop guessing. Learn what feels good, how to ask better questions, and how to become a more attuned, confident lover.

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For Couples:

Create intimacy that feels more connected, communicative, and satisfying for both of you. Elevate your eroticism with intention.

Ready to deepen your relationship with pleasure?

Private coaching for women, partners, and couples who want to find ease in communication, access more attuned touch, and create intentional intimacy that feels embodied and deeply satisfying.

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The Pussy Whisperer® Method

Pleasure-centered touch begins with safety, attunement, and communication. From there, we build the skills that help both giver and receiver feel more present, confident, and connected.

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The receiver has choice, control, and full permission to pause, redirect, slow down, or stop. Safety creates the foundation for arousal, trust, and honest feedback.

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The giver learns to pay attention to breath, tension, sound, movement, and spoken feedback. Attunement turns touch into a conversation with the body.

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Both people can ask, answer, redirect, pause, and make adjustments without shame. Communication makes pleasure more collaborative.

Core Skills We Practice

Giver space is the practice of stewarding the experience from preparation to aftercare. It includes setting the tone, checking in, offering touch with patience, responding to feedback, and staying grounded enough to support the receiver’s pleasure without making the moment about performance.

Giver Space

Receiver space is the practice of noticing, feeling, wanting, and allowing. Many receivers have been trained to manage a partner’s ego, look sexy, stay quiet, or hurry toward orgasm. This work helps the receiver let the body lead and treat feedback as information instead of criticism.

Receiver Space

Body literacy brings together anatomy, arousal, energy, sensation, and nervous system regulation. We look at how the body responds to touch, attention, breath, safety, tension, and desire so pleasure becomes easier to understand, communicate, and follow.

Body Literacy

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Meet The Pussy Whisperer

Ashley Manta has spent her two decade career helping people talk about sex, pleasure, and intimacy.

Ashley Manta is a certified sexologist, award-winning relationship coach, and educator known for bringing warmth, precision, and practical guidance to conversations most people were never taught how to have.

Ashley is certified through the American Board of Sexology and trained as a Betty Dodson Bodysex® Coach, a certified consulting hypnotist, Reiki practitioner, and energy sex facilitator. She has also completed six months of Internal Family Systems training for coaches. She is the author of The CBD Solution: Sex, was named XBIZ Sexpert of the Year in 2020, and has taught at conferences, retreats, private events, and brand trainings around the world.

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What People Are Saying

“Ashley’s coaching helped me understand myself in and outside the bedroom. She gave me language, tools, and confidence I didn’t know I was missing.”

— Alice M.

“I now understand how much I deserve to be loved, and how to communicate what I want without shrinking.”

— Rianna A.

Simply put she said what I've needed to hear and encouraged me to be ALL of me!

— Dani P.

Questions About Sex and Intimacy Coaching

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  • Sex and intimacy coaching is personalized support for the parts of your erotic and relational life most people were never taught how to talk about.

    We may focus on pleasure, desire, communication, body confidence, arousal, orgasm, boundaries, receiving, or partnered intimacy. The work is practical, shame-free, and designed to help you understand yourself more clearly and create meaningful change.

  • No. This is coaching and education, not therapy, medical care, or mental health treatment.

    My work focuses on pleasure, communication, relational skills, embodiment, and sexual confidence. I bring a trauma-informed lens and a strong consent framework, and I’ll let you know if something would be better supported by a therapist, physician, pelvic floor specialist, or other provider.

  • My work blends practical sex education, pleasure-centered coaching, somatic awareness, consent-based communication, and erotic skill-building.

    I’m certified in Betty Dodson’s Bodysex® approach, trained as a certified hypnotist, an attuned Reiki Master, and have training in energy sex facilitation. I’ve also completed six months of Internal Family Systems training for coaches, which informs how I work with inner conflict, shame, desire, protectors, and the parts of us that want pleasure but may not yet feel safe receiving it.

  • Yes. I work with couples who want to communicate more clearly, feel more connected, and create a more satisfying intimate life together.

    Couples often come to me when sex feels fraught, desire feels mismatched, or conversations about intimacy keep turning into conflict or shutdown. We slow things down, name what is happening, and build practical tools for desire, touch, boundaries, repair, and pleasure.

  • Yes. I work with husbands, boyfriends, and partners who want to become more attentive, skillful, and confident lovers.

    Many caring partners were never given useful education about women’s bodies, arousal, pleasure, or communication. This work helps you stop guessing, ask better questions, receive feedback well, and create deeper trust that makes pleasure more accessible for both of you.

  • A private session is a focused conversation about what is happening in your intimate life and what you want to shift.

    We may use education, guided inquiry, communication tools, somatic awareness, or specific practices to help you leave with more clarity and concrete next steps. You can bring a specific question, a relationship challenge, or a general sense that your pleasure or intimacy needs more attention. Most sessions are conducted via Zoom. A limited number of in-person somatic sessions are available for VIP clients.